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How was school today?

Posted in being a mum, big school, family on October 5, 2010 by laurawolfe

I get in from work at 7.30 pm tonight.  It’s bedtime.  I go upstairs to tuck Natan in.

Me: How was school today?

Natan: Good

Me: What did you do?

Natan: Oh, the usual stuff.

Me: What’s the usual stuff?

Natan: Oh, you know…

Me: No, I don’t. That’s why I’m asking.

Natan:  Just stuff.  Lego.  Writing my name.  Do you want to know what I had for lunch?

Me: Yes, what did you have for lunch?

Natan: Carrots, potatoes, tuna, and gravy.

Me: Right, sounds lovely.

Natan: Yes, healthy lunch.

Me: Right. What did you have for pudding?

Natan: Some kind of crispy cake, but I didn’t like that so I didn’t eat it. It was yellow.

Me: Right.

Natan: You wouldn’t have liked it either mummy.

Me: Right.

Bedtime conversations. Priceless.


Mummy, have I got asthma?

Posted in being a mum, family, thoughts on life on October 1, 2010 by laurawolfe

“Mummy, have I got asthma?” (pronounced asma)

“Yes, you sometimes get asthma.”

“But mummy. Have I got asthma now?” (pronounced asma)

“No darling. Not now.”

“Good” (Huge relief.)

“Why darling? Why good?”

“Because if you have asthma, (pronounced asma) you can’t be a soldier.”

“Oh right. Who told you that?”

“Daddy. Daddy said when he was little he wanted to be a soldier, but because he had asthma (pronounced asma) he couldn’t go in the army.”

“So you want to be a soldier?”

“Yes mummy.”

(Right then.)

Tomorrow’s the Big day

Posted in being a mum, big school, family, thoughts on life on September 15, 2010 by laurawolfe

Tomorrow Natan finally starts “Big School”.

I cried when I picked him up from his last ever day at nursery today. The reality of the situation finally hit me.  He, on the other hand, took it all in his stride and bounced off as if it was any normal pick up.

I have no idea what sort of fool of myself I will make tomorrow, but I imagine it’s going to be quite a scene. I will try and save it for when I get back in the car at least.  

Tonight I have ironed on name labels to every piece of clothing he owns (almost).  Am I over the top putting his name in his pants and socks?  Oh well, too late. It’s done. 

Tomorrow I will drop him off, kiss him goodbye, and watch him walk off to the first day of the rest of his life. Time will flash in front of me and I will imagine him starting at secondary school, at university, getting married, etc, etc.

I will try to savour the moment.  After all, it’s a big day.

Tomorrow my small boy will become a big boy.

Things I have learnt this week and it’s only Wednesday…

Posted in being a mum, business, family, Handy hints, Journey9 UK, manchester, technology, thoughts on life, work on September 15, 2010 by laurawolfe
  1. If you drop your Blackberry in the toilet at 2am, do not shout, “S**t”, run to the bedroom, turn on the hairdryer and panic.  Instead…. calmly remove said item from the toilet bowl, dry phone off, take off battery, remove sim card and media card.  Proceed directly to the kitchen. Find some rice. Place phone in plastic sandwich bag, pour in rice (uncooked), zip bag up.  Put bag in airing cupboard and leave for approx 30 hours.  Remove bag and clean off rice, some of which will now have embeded itself in phone. Replace sim card, media card and battery and hey presto – good as new. Result (for me at least)
  2. I can manage 30 hours without my mobile phone (difficult and I bit all the skin around my nails, but I did not actually die so everyone’s a winner)
  3. Sometimes being a working mummy is hard, especially when you have big projects on at work and your little boy is growing up and starting school in the same week. Tomorrow he will start full time. I will drop him off and immediately jump on the train to London for an overnight, missing his first school pick up
  4. Sometimes running your own business is especially hard
  5. Sometimes I need a wife
  6. Sometimes life is just hard
  7. Oh and lastly, the weather in Manchester is beyond rubbish.

All that said, every day is a learning experience – good and bad – and as I said I’m still alive….which is good.

Have a great rest of week all.

Starting school

Posted in being a mum, family, thoughts on life on September 5, 2010 by laurawolfe

Natan is starting school in a week.

I think he is more ready than me. 

I have taken care of all the practical stuff.  The after school cover is sorted.  The uniform is bought. The name labels are on the way. The daily bottle of milk is ordered and paid for. 

As for the emotional stuff, I don’t think I’ve quite come to terms with the fact that we are just to start a new and important chapter in his life. 

He is growing up.  He continues to amaze me.

The famous first day in his new uniform shot will be posted soon.  I am sure it will be tear-stained (with mine, not his.)

Did I win mummy?

Posted in being a mum, family, sport, thoughts on life on July 4, 2010 by laurawolfe

Natan swam in his swimming Gala today.  He won two silver medals and I was of course very proud.  He swam 25 m today in front of about 100 people and it was amazing.

Whilst he absolutely loves the competion, we are teaching him that we are so proud of him for trying his best whether he wins or not.  However, when he got out of the pool after each of his races he beamed at me and said, “Did I win mummy?”

Seeing the different parents at the Gala is really interesting. There are other parents in his age group who are so competitive, it’s almost laughable. Remember, he is four.  I just love the fact he enjoys his swimming so much. 

Tomorrow he has his first settle in afternoon at “Big” school. I can’t believe he is starting in September. 

My boy is growing up.

Journey9 is 6 months old

Posted in being a mum, business, family, Journey9 UK, thoughts on life, work on June 30, 2010 by laurawolfe

It’s been a mad, yet fantastic, 6 months.

It’s flown by. I’ve learned an immense amount. 

It’s been really tough juggling the new business with a growing 4-year-old, a husband and a home, and I’ve had very little sleep but had a lot of fun.  There is much still to do, but I am enjoying the journey (pardon the pun).  Am I glad I made the move? You bet. 

I am lucky enough to be working with a wonderful team and some amazing clients and we are hoping to be able to announce a few more in the coming months.

Thanks to many of you for your support so far and in the words of someone else more poetic than I…

“The road is long, with many a winding turn, that leads us to who knows where, who knows when.”

Who knows indeed?

That’s the fun part.